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It is said that the only stupid questions that you ask, are the ones you never asked. The sole intent of this section is so you may ask the burning questions you have desired to be answered. The answers to your questions about love and relationships may be given on this page, so please return to this section after a couple of days. It is also possible that we may take the questions you are asking and use them as a topic to write an article on. Whatever the case may be, we will attempt to supply answers that are useful to you.
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November 16th, 2012 at 4:41 am
I am a senior in highschool. I am currently in a very difficult situation that i need help with. One of my friends has a girlfriend. This girl has two other good friends, Amy and Rachael. One of her friends, Amy, has a huge crush on me and her friends are always pushing for us to go out. The truth is, I have no interst in Amy, but the part I can’t handle is that I really really like Rachael. I can’t stop thinking about her. I am not positive but i have a feeling that Rachael likes me too because she is always smiling and looking at me although she also pushes for me and Amy to go out. I feel she is doing this just to help her friend out. Last weekend Rachael, Amy, one of my friends, and I hung out. I got pretty drunk and was doing some ridiculous things. But Rachael and Amy couldn’t stop laughing. Since Amy and I were suppose to be “together” rachael and my friend, by default, were too. The only thing they did was hold hands for a bit but i didnt see much of a spark between them. The next morning I was depressed about what happened between them, and my friend told me how Rachael couldnt stop talking about how funny i was. This raised my hopes. What do I do? I dont want Amy to feel bad but I have such strong feelings for Rachael. I want to talk to Rachael alone about how I feel about her. The four of us are planning to hang again in a few nights and I need to know if I should tell her if I get the chance…I also dont want my friend to get close to Rachael again because I will just be depressed again. Please help me out?
COMMENT: Well if you don’t do anything, somebody else will. Now, what are you getting drunk for? That will only impede your judgement. Why pretend to like someone if you do not? Why not tell Rachael that you would rather spend some time with her? Find a time when you can discreetly ask Rachael out and quit playing the silly game.
October 29th, 2012 at 1:20 am
I am writing this letter to you tonight because I am in need of some serious guidance. My name is Amanda and I'm an 18 year old college student from Pennsylvania. I've been in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend Brett for 2 and a half years before we recently broke up in September. I am going to try to be as brief as I can, but I must include details in order for you to understand fully. Brett was a guy that I thought I would never be attracted to. He was just one of those guys that complimented you and accepted them just to be nice. But one day, we actually spent time together and I found myself falling in love with him. I was 16, he was 18. When we decided to pursue a relationship, he was nice at first, but then started to make promises he didn't keep and ditched me a lot. He would only call me when it was convenient for him. He only would hangout with me when he felt like it. I started to get the hint, and then one morning out of the blue he just said "We're Done." I asked him why but I didn't get a reply. I didn't hear from him for about a month and a half after that, but he was with other women the whole time. Many different women. When he started contacting me again it was like heaven on Earth. He actually started to be sincere with me about his feelings. He really was falling in love with me, which was exciting for me because I was always in love with him. Things started going great! We took a trip to New York together, spent Christmas and New Years together and spent almost everyday together. My dreams were coming true. However, we did fight a lot during these times. And I mean A LOT, but we always got through it. This was happening up until May of this year. I went on vacation for a week and the day I came back, we had a fight. I guess we were broken up because out of anger I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. Next thing I knew, he was calling my the next day telling me that a girl gave him oral sex that night. He was very very very guilty. I was so angry that I said very nasty things. I agreed to meet him and I guess I decided to forgive him. We both worked on our relationship then, but it was still a little shaky because I could NOT get over the fact that he had, what I consider, cheated on me. Ever since that day he told me about his thoughts out of nowhere, which was his guilty conscience. We would be having a great day and he would bring it up because he was guilty. It was ruining us. We had another big fight in July and his half-sister was in from West Virginia. He had been drinking a lot and that night he had sex with her! I was bewildered! After he did, he sent himself to the pysch ward,and I was just so shocked. After I had mulled it over, I panicked and let him back into my life because I knew we could work it out. Low and behold, we still fought because he couldn't ignore his guilt and I couldn't let the actions go. We lived this make-up break-up life up until September. We had another fight and he was out at the bar and he kissed two women. I thought that was the last straw for me. I told him to leave me alone and that I was really truly done. He didn't try to contact me for 2 weeks after that. I accepted some of his calls and texts, so now he won't stop texting me. It's making me rethink my decision and I really don't know what to do. I can't live this life forever, but I don't have it in my heart to let him go. He swears and swears he will stop and he will change, but "not until he gets me back." What an immature statement I know, but there is something wrong with him if he had sex with his half-sister. He won't go get help until he "gets me back" but I want to take this time for me and have a fresh sense of the situation but the hurt doesn't ever go away. The good memories are hurting my heart. When he texts me, I just feel so emotionally exhausted. I love him but I don't know if he deserves another chance. When he contacts me, I either react two ways. I am either angry and lash out or I feel sad. I am just so emotionally damaged, I don't know which way is up. I love him so much, but I know if he loved me the way he says he does, this would have never happened, OR he would've changed by now.. I don't know what to do. I find myself almost wanting to agree to see him when he asks, even though we haven't seen each other for over a month. I've tried to picture myself with other men, but I just am NOT attracted to anyone else. I am wondering if that feeling ever goes away? I don't know if I can ever stop loving him. HELP
RESPONSE: You ever heard of the saying; If it happens once it their fault, if it happens twice it’s my fault? What about if it happens 10 times, whose fault is it? One big issue for you is that you are thinking with your emotions, not with your head. When you get done banging your head on the wall repeatedly, you will stop due to the great pain you caused yourself. The under current here is SEX, you should not give yourself away until marriage, you allow others to disrespect you when you do. And many guys, only come a knockin when they want sex, I am sure you know what I mean.
July 23rd, 2012 at 12:39 pm
There is this girl, you see, she calls me her best friend, but never even takes the time to even call me. Just a single little text message in 2 weeks tops could make my day..
From day 1 that i met her i have felt this strange attraction, she pulls me closer to her without even wanting to.. She probably doesn’t even know. I can’t stop thinking about her, she is in my mind everyday. I just can’t help it. I care too much or something, i don’t know man, i’m so confused.. Do i love her? Do i hate her? What is this? Some kind of obsession?
When she talks about the guys she’s been with, and when she flirts with guys, i get mad and jealous to the point that i want to hurt her.
When she hurts me, it hurts more than anything in the world. She soothes me, but at the same time she makes me insane.
She is in my mind all the time. And there is not a single thing i can do about it. I hate her so much, but at the same time i worship her.. She makes me so crazy. Her eyes hypnotize me.. Her smiles makes me warm.. Her smell makes me insane.. Her body makes me horny as hell.
I can feel that i am eating less. My energy feels drained, and i feel numb all the time. And the things i used to do that once brought me great joy, now only bore me.. Why can’t i stop thinking about her?
RESPONSE: You first need to deal with your jealousy issue, then either make a move, ask her out, tell her how you feel, or hang around on the sidelines while someone else does.