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It is said that the only stupid questions that you ask, are the ones you never asked. The sole intent of this section is so you may ask the burning questions you have desired to be answered. The answers to your questions about love and relationships may be given on this page, so please return to this section after a couple of days. It is also possible that we may take the questions you are asking and use them as a topic to write an article on. Whatever the case may be, we will attempt to supply answers that are useful to you.
Often times people want to hear the answers the way they want them, that is not going to happen here. Be prepared to accept answers that are answered out of love. Love will not tell you what you want to hear, but rather what you need to discover. Sometimes the questions that people are asking are more complex than they appear, therefore the answers you receive may be multifaceted.
Please note that the relationship questions you are asking will appear in ascending order, 15 questions per page, thus you will may need to scroll to the bottom of this page and click to the next page in order to see the question you asked about, as well as it’s corresponding answer.
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July 15th, 2012 at 4:22 pm
A couple of months ago, my friend asked me to go with his sister to prom, and said “she thinks I’m cute.” I could not go to prom, however, because of another event. She’s always been in the back of my mind, but I never really thought about her until recently. For some reason, now, I’ve had an attraction to her, and I don’t even know her personally. I think she’s cute, but that’s it. The only thing that’s really pulling me towards her is that she wanted to go to prom with me. Should I text my friend (her brother) I am interested in meeting her? I have been trying to go to parties that she goes to, but I haven’t gotten the chance. How can I get this girl? My friends seem to think that I should be able to get her, but the wait is killing me.
RESPONSE: Your a man, take a stand, quit doubting yourself so much and ASK HER YOURSELF.
July 10th, 2012 at 8:50 pm
Hello my name is Marie, my question is do leave your husband who loves you because lack of sex also him being selfish? or most of all since we gat married he will not foreplay with me or care about my sexual needs. I am the kinda women who loves to please without asking anything in return but its now been 6 months since he has pleased me sexually. In other aspect he is the best husband any women would want. Please help me understand since I am so sad and depress because I dont know if I want to live this way for the rest of my life.
Sincerely Marie.
God Bless
RESPONSE: There is far more to love than just sex. You say he is selfish, but you complain that he has not pleased you??? As to the sexual aspect; Have you asked him why? Is he older? Could there be a testosterone issue? Has he been to a doctor? Have the both of you been to a counselor?
May 24th, 2012 at 7:45 am
please i’m engaged to this gentle man and i will like you to help and tell me what the bible really say about conviction i.e if he is the right partner
REPLY: What is the source of your doubt? Answer that question honestly for yourself. Then pray to God and ask Him to direct your steps.
May 16th, 2012 at 12:10 am
hi friends. its very good to see you guys revealing your problems and others solving. hopefully all were the same.anyway i come to my point.
i had a relation with a girl for 2.5 years and she lives just 2 / 3 houses by my home. but after 1 year i faced some problems. firstly we used to quarrel for futile things.. and even she did not want to calm down and fix it nor did i.. secondly she had a friend and he proposed her. i did not like it.. i told her to keep some distance with him but she turned a deaf ear. she used to roam with him..went for bike riding even called him to her home without informing me..and when i asked she used to lie to me. i know i was a little possessive but i believe she should at least care to my words..any way 6 month earlier she broke up with me giving some damn family problem.. even i cut my wrist for her. any way after 1 month she did contact me again..but within one month again she broke up for that guy (her friend) cause i by mistake miss called him..even she was with a condition that after getting a job[ my dream is to get into INDIAN MILITARY ACADEMY through CDS EXAM and it would take 3 years to complete training]. after that i got into a relation with another girl of my area whom she could not tolerate. some days before she called me again and cried to forgive her. but i did not pay any attention and abused her.. coz i cant hurt my new gf coz although knowing all my past she stand by me and she loves me a lot.but now a days its hurting me a lot and i am in a doubt what to do…should i go back to her or stay with present? did i do right ignoring 2.5 year relation for a 3 month relation? my parents do know nothing but knew all past even she used to come to my home and had a good relation with my parents………i cant love my new gf 100% for that situation. its hurting me, i cant forget her……i know this is too long to read,but please help me.. its making me closer to death, thats true. please help me…,,,,,thnx in advance
REPLY: First clean the inside of the cup so that the outside may be clean. You should seek professional assistance, you did not cut your wrist for her, you cut it out of your own pain. Now, it is more important to understand than it is to be understood. With this in mind, you should increase in your understanding and wisdom after you get your emotions under control.
March 29th, 2012 at 7:16 am
Does God lead us to our soul mate/match? I heard some stories where people pray for certain characteristics for their ideal match, and they happen to meet someone like that. But can he physically show the person to me? And also I know we have free will, but is it unrealistic to pray for a connection with someone you like?
Answer: Sometimes the one that God has for us is right in front of our eyes and we do not see it. Other times, it has yet to come. My suggestion is this, invest your time in God, He will not lead you astray. Pray for clarity, direction and then be willing to follow Him. Let Him direct your paths.
March 6th, 2012 at 3:15 am
hi deer. my name is serena. my bf and i going out for 1 years 7 months now. we really love each other. The problem is that we lack self control when it comes to sex. we want to get registered cz we don’t want to be in danger. but our parents not allowing us to be registered. we were thinking of getting married next year but we cant wait any longer. is getting registered wrong ? what should i do?
Answer: You lack self control because you lust. Control Yourself, if you are not in control of yourself then who is? You can abstain, it is a choice. Develop a deep friendship, learn about each other, sex is not the foundation to set a relationship on, when the sex fails you will need something more meaningful. Get married first.
February 15th, 2012 at 6:48 am
AM 27YRS N I’VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 10YRS NOW. WE ARE LIVING SEPARATELY. SINCE I MET HIM, THINGS WERE NOT ALL THAT OK WHEN IT COME’S TO FINANCIAL MATTERS, HE ALWAYS SAY IF THINGS GET BETTER FOR HIM HE WILL COME AND ASK MY HAND IN MARRIAGE. WE HAD MISUNDERSTANDING SOME MONTH AGO AND LATER I REALIZE HE WAS CHEATING ON ME.THE LADY PICKED MY NUMBER ON HIS PHONE BECAUSE HAVE BEEN CALLING HIM TO MUCH, SHE CALLED ME,ASKING ME TO STOP CHANCING HIS BOYFRIEND AND ALL SORT OF MESSAGES.WHEN HE FIND OUT I KNEW THE TRUTH , HE’S BEGGING SAYING IT WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN. I FORGIVE HIM BUT I DON’T KNOW WHETHER TO TRUST HIM OR NOT. NOW THAT HE’S ABOUT TO TRAVEL, HE PROMISE TO COME BACK AND MARRY ME. I DON’T KNOW WHETHER TO WAIT FOR HIM OR NOT. PLEASE HELP ME
BEST REGARDS!!!
COMMENT: No one can make your choices for you, but you should understand that you will be insecure about him now, and that it will take time to build up trust again. Trust is at the main foundation of the relationship, once it is shattered it takes time to rebuild. Abstain from sex until you are married, otherwise you disrespect yourself and allow others to do the same.
January 19th, 2012 at 6:11 pm
I’m a Christian but my boyfriend is not. I’m trying to helping to become a christian but he says he’s not ready for that yet. Its hard to explain that God doesn’t approve fornication. I love him n he does too. What I should do?
RESPONSE: To love someone does not mean that they must be a part of your life as your flesh desires. You can not change him to fit your mold, or to be the man God wants him to be, that is Gods job. Too many women fall into this trap, afraid of losing what they think is “their love”, they give themselves away and pay the price when they leave. 2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
November 16th, 2011 at 8:22 am
Hi My boyfriend and I (over 50) have been together for over 3 years, we broke up and have just reunited again because there is so much love between us…he has cheated on me two times in the past, stays in contact with one of them and now he has a bunch of female “friends” that he texts and emails all day. He says they are just friends and that I’m the one he loves. Am I blind? If this is true, and I work on forgiveness doesn’t he have to let go of these friendships? I’m confused on how to make us fix us, which we both honestly want. Please help me, I’m so lost and hurt. 11/16
RESPONSE: Often times forgiveness requires repentance as a prerequisite, and in your case it should. First, do not let your emotions fool you, there is NOT “so much love between you”. If there was the cheating would not have happened. There may be much LUST between you, or infatuation, but certainly some selfishness in order for one to cheat. Secondly, you will now be insecure about any woman relating to this guy in any way. And because of this, you will also be afraid of future hurts in the same manner. Be wise, heal, and do not let your hurts get in the way of your future, in other words, don’t decide that all guys are this way, instead look for ones that value you in friendship first! What did I just say? Do not give yourself away prematurely like you did in this relationship… when you give yourself away the guy will just take what he gets and run with it, understand?
Find someone who values you and loves you in friendship, then let him say so with a ring!
November 14th, 2011 at 10:32 pm
I need help my boyfriend and I are both bi and well he’s wanting to take hormones to be more feminine but i really don’t want him to cuz of how our families will react. so he’s willing to compromise if i can come up with something that can take take the place of the hormones. any ideas?
Yeah, read the bible! Wisdom is supreme, therefore get wisdom.
November 1st, 2011 at 7:51 pm
I have been married to my high school sweet heart for 5 years. We are going through what I call a rough patch. Constantly bickering and fighting over small things and bad attitudes towards each other. Recently he has started talking to other females, not in a very respectful way for me. What is your opinion on where our relationship is heading? I am stuck on what I should do for myself and my children.
RESPONSE: Life is all about learning to love within the context of relationships. So, how is your love doing? It’s not perfect, cause your not perfect, and neither is his. Understanding is the single biggest key, did you see the link on top of the page asking you if your relationship is worth $45. Wisdom is supreme, therefore get wisdom, though it costs you all you have, get understanding. Proverbs 4:7
October 4th, 2011 at 1:59 pm
MY Girlfriend is 41yrs of age and i am 35 is that a problem ?
REPLY: Why would it be?
June 22nd, 2011 at 2:11 am
hello
I’m 25 years old. I’m about to enter into a relationship
with a guy he cares about me and and says all the that he loves me and wants to spend his life with me, he is asking me for marriage..he was married before about two years ago and he is divorced now.. but the problem is that sometimes I feel that he still has feelings for her, even he says all the time that he is regretful and that he wish he never met her or marry her.. and tells me that he want to start a new life with me … I don’t know how to make sure that he truly loves me and not thinking about her… please help me
best regards,
RESPONSE: First ask yourself why you are insecure in this relationship, have you had similar relationships such as this that failed? You need to resolve your issue, insecurity. Then you need to understand that in starting new the same old issues will arise on BOTH SIDES, yours and his. You want to win at relationship? Seek insight, get wisdom, gain understanding together, and seek Christian counsel before you marry.
would be a great place for you both to begin really understanding each other, while laughing about it along the way, it’s a true comedy!
Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage
June 14th, 2011 at 9:18 pm
So my birthday is coming up, and I’m thinking about asking for a promise that happens to cost $88 from my boyfriend. We have been going out for a little over 7 months. Is this TOO much to ask for? I mean I even looked for rings at WALMART so it didn’t seem like TOO much. I’ll be turing 16 and he is 19. Should I ask for it? Part of me feels like I’ll be kind of greedy if I do but after he buys me one I will buy him one…Should I ask him for it or not? PLEASE HELP!
RESPONSE: First ask yourself why you are so insecure in asking? Why are you so judgmental of yourself? I do not know you, but I know your worth at least $88 plus tax! Have a look at these promise rings.
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:37 am
hope to hear from you sooner..
i have been in a relationship for 4years now.. i know i love him.. Like every relationship, there are instances that you argue with each other and be okay again overnight.. But I think, with those arguments we already had, there’s wrong.. I dont know if it is I who has a problem or him.. He is a seafarer for almost 3 years now.. and he goes home once a year.. I only see him for 3-4months a year.. But when he’s home, he always wants to go out with his friends.. Good side of him is that, he asks me but when i said “NO” he always insist me to say yes.. The reason why I dont like him to go out is because, he always tells me that they have reunion.. everytime he goes out with his friends, that is his reason.. good if he has only one group of friends.. he actually has many groups.. so if i estimate the days he wants to go out, probably, 3times a week.. how could that be? how about his time for me? is one-day reunion not enough? im so sad of that because, honestly, i want to be with him as much as we have the opportunity to be with each other because i know we will not get to see each other again when he goes to work.. his contract is 10 months.. i tried to let him understand.. i talked to him about this but he seemed like he doesnt care..
He is at work now and when i opened my Facebook, i saw a newly uploaded album by his friend.. when i opened the album, i remember that that was the time when we quarreled because i didnt like him to go out.. and all i knew was he really didnt go anymore.. as i clicked to another picture, i saw him in the pic.. and i got really shocked upon seeing it because all i knew for more than a month was he was never with them then.. so i mailed him about it.. i told him how i got hurt.. and its bad because he never said sorry instead he got mad..
i really love him but i made a decision not to talk with him for a while.. but we didnt break up.. i just wanted to find answers to my questions why? im not selfish.. i just want to spend his time with me when we have the opportunity to be together physically.. what am i going to do? how can i let him understand that? please help me.. help help help!!!
RESPONSE: Well look, you want relationship, but you apparently were not ready to wait for marriage. If a man says he loves you, let him buy you a ring. Until then, save yourself for someone who will respect you and your needs.