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It is said that the only stupid questions that you ask, are the ones you never asked. The sole intent of this section is so you may ask the burning questions you have desired to be answered. The answers to your questions about love and relationships may be given on this page, so please return to this section after a couple of days. It is also possible that we may take the questions you are asking and use them as a topic to write an article on. Whatever the case may be, we will attempt to supply answers that are useful to you.
Often times people want to hear the answers the way they want them, that is not going to happen here. Be prepared to accept answers that are answered out of love. Love will not tell you what you want to hear, but rather what you need to discover. Sometimes the questions that people are asking are more complex than they appear, therefore the answers you receive may be multifaceted.
Please note that the relationship questions you are asking will appear in ascending order, 15 questions per page, thus you will may need to scroll to the bottom of this page and click to the next page in order to see the question you asked about, as well as it’s corresponding answer.
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January 19th, 2012 at 6:11 pm
I’m a Christian but my boyfriend is not. I’m trying to helping to become a christian but he says he’s not ready for that yet. Its hard to explain that God doesn’t approve fornication. I love him n he does too. What I should do?
RESPONSE: To love someone does not mean that they must be a part of your life as your flesh desires. You can not change him to fit your mold, or to be the man God wants him to be, that is Gods job. Too many women fall into this trap, afraid of losing what they think is “their love”, they give themselves away and pay the price when they leave. 2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?
November 16th, 2011 at 8:22 am
Hi My boyfriend and I (over 50) have been together for over 3 years, we broke up and have just reunited again because there is so much love between us…he has cheated on me two times in the past, stays in contact with one of them and now he has a bunch of female “friends” that he texts and emails all day. He says they are just friends and that I’m the one he loves. Am I blind? If this is true, and I work on forgiveness doesn’t he have to let go of these friendships? I’m confused on how to make us fix us, which we both honestly want. Please help me, I’m so lost and hurt. 11/16
RESPONSE: Often times forgiveness requires repentance as a prerequisite, and in your case it should. First, do not let your emotions fool you, there is NOT “so much love between you”. If there was the cheating would not have happened. There may be much LUST between you, or infatuation, but certainly some selfishness in order for one to cheat. Secondly, you will now be insecure about any woman relating to this guy in any way. And because of this, you will also be afraid of future hurts in the same manner. Be wise, heal, and do not let your hurts get in the way of your future, in other words, don’t decide that all guys are this way, instead look for ones that value you in friendship first! What did I just say? Do not give yourself away prematurely like you did in this relationship… when you give yourself away the guy will just take what he gets and run with it, understand?
Find someone who values you and loves you in friendship, then let him say so with a ring!
November 14th, 2011 at 10:32 pm
I need help my boyfriend and I are both bi and well he’s wanting to take hormones to be more feminine but i really don’t want him to cuz of how our families will react. so he’s willing to compromise if i can come up with something that can take take the place of the hormones. any ideas?
Yeah, read the bible! Wisdom is supreme, therefore get wisdom.
November 1st, 2011 at 7:51 pm
I have been married to my high school sweet heart for 5 years. We are going through what I call a rough patch. Constantly bickering and fighting over small things and bad attitudes towards each other. Recently he has started talking to other females, not in a very respectful way for me. What is your opinion on where our relationship is heading? I am stuck on what I should do for myself and my children.
RESPONSE: Life is all about learning to love within the context of relationships. So, how is your love doing? It’s not perfect, cause your not perfect, and neither is his. Understanding is the single biggest key, did you see the link on top of the page asking you if your relationship is worth $45. Wisdom is supreme, therefore get wisdom, though it costs you all you have, get understanding. Proverbs 4:7
October 4th, 2011 at 1:59 pm
MY Girlfriend is 41yrs of age and i am 35 is that a problem ?
REPLY: Why would it be?
June 22nd, 2011 at 2:11 am
hello
I’m 25 years old. I’m about to enter into a relationship
with a guy he cares about me and and says all the that he loves me and wants to spend his life with me, he is asking me for marriage..he was married before about two years ago and he is divorced now.. but the problem is that sometimes I feel that he still has feelings for her, even he says all the time that he is regretful and that he wish he never met her or marry her.. and tells me that he want to start a new life with me … I don’t know how to make sure that he truly loves me and not thinking about her… please help me
best regards,
RESPONSE: First ask yourself why you are insecure in this relationship, have you had similar relationships such as this that failed? You need to resolve your issue, insecurity. Then you need to understand that in starting new the same old issues will arise on BOTH SIDES, yours and his. You want to win at relationship? Seek insight, get wisdom, gain understanding together, and seek Christian counsel before you marry.
would be a great place for you both to begin really understanding each other, while laughing about it along the way, it’s a true comedy!
Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage
June 14th, 2011 at 9:18 pm
So my birthday is coming up, and I’m thinking about asking for a promise that happens to cost $88 from my boyfriend. We have been going out for a little over 7 months. Is this TOO much to ask for? I mean I even looked for rings at WALMART so it didn’t seem like TOO much. I’ll be turing 16 and he is 19. Should I ask for it? Part of me feels like I’ll be kind of greedy if I do but after he buys me one I will buy him one…Should I ask him for it or not? PLEASE HELP!
RESPONSE: First ask yourself why you are so insecure in asking? Why are you so judgmental of yourself? I do not know you, but I know your worth at least $88 plus tax! Have a look at these promise rings.
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:37 am
hope to hear from you sooner..
i have been in a relationship for 4years now.. i know i love him.. Like every relationship, there are instances that you argue with each other and be okay again overnight.. But I think, with those arguments we already had, there’s wrong.. I dont know if it is I who has a problem or him.. He is a seafarer for almost 3 years now.. and he goes home once a year.. I only see him for 3-4months a year.. But when he’s home, he always wants to go out with his friends.. Good side of him is that, he asks me but when i said “NO” he always insist me to say yes.. The reason why I dont like him to go out is because, he always tells me that they have reunion.. everytime he goes out with his friends, that is his reason.. good if he has only one group of friends.. he actually has many groups.. so if i estimate the days he wants to go out, probably, 3times a week.. how could that be? how about his time for me? is one-day reunion not enough? im so sad of that because, honestly, i want to be with him as much as we have the opportunity to be with each other because i know we will not get to see each other again when he goes to work.. his contract is 10 months.. i tried to let him understand.. i talked to him about this but he seemed like he doesnt care..
He is at work now and when i opened my Facebook, i saw a newly uploaded album by his friend.. when i opened the album, i remember that that was the time when we quarreled because i didnt like him to go out.. and all i knew was he really didnt go anymore.. as i clicked to another picture, i saw him in the pic.. and i got really shocked upon seeing it because all i knew for more than a month was he was never with them then.. so i mailed him about it.. i told him how i got hurt.. and its bad because he never said sorry instead he got mad..
i really love him but i made a decision not to talk with him for a while.. but we didnt break up.. i just wanted to find answers to my questions why? im not selfish.. i just want to spend his time with me when we have the opportunity to be together physically.. what am i going to do? how can i let him understand that? please help me.. help help help!!!
RESPONSE: Well look, you want relationship, but you apparently were not ready to wait for marriage. If a man says he loves you, let him buy you a ring. Until then, save yourself for someone who will respect you and your needs.