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	<title>Comments on: Not In Love With You Anymore, My Feelings Are Gone</title>
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		<title>By: vanessa</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Jan 2011 06:52:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well i have dis boyfriend n im tired of im when we need 2 talk he seems 2 make a joke out of it or hee get loud n tell me 2 get out of his face n dat shyt hurtin me cause im stressin dat i am feelin very unappeciated thou, i do everything cook clean n take care of my infant n he still dont respect me when i talk bout anything 4 exMPLE he have a cousin stayin with us he done call me out my name several times when we first met he never did dat but it is wat it is i just think da only soulution is WE NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE

COMMENT: And you will probably continue to feel undervalued by him until you get married. Having someone stay in your home for more than a couple weeks can put a serious strain on your relationship, not good! You can bring back that loving feeling, when you both understand what love really is. Love is a choice, it does not require your feelings to be aroused in order to love, you can love simply by deciding to, and so can he. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599754169?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=callcom04-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1599754169&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=callcom04-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1599754169&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border:none !important; margin:0px !important;&quot; /&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well i have dis boyfriend n im tired of im when we need 2 talk he seems 2 make a joke out of it or hee get loud n tell me 2 get out of his face n dat shyt hurtin me cause im stressin dat i am feelin very unappeciated thou, i do everything cook clean n take care of my infant n he still dont respect me when i talk bout anything 4 exMPLE he have a cousin stayin with us he done call me out my name several times when we first met he never did dat but it is wat it is i just think da only soulution is WE NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE</p>
<p>COMMENT: And you will probably continue to feel undervalued by him until you get married. Having someone stay in your home for more than a couple weeks can put a serious strain on your relationship, not good! You can bring back that loving feeling, when you both understand what love really is. Love is a choice, it does not require your feelings to be aroused in order to love, you can love simply by deciding to, and so can he. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599754169?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=callcom04-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=1599754169">Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=callcom04-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=1599754169" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /></p>
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		<title>By: Nancy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes all the water that&#039;s gone under the bridge has washed away the love that was there...

Comment: Love is not only something you feel. It’s something you do. Love is a choice, love does not focus on personal pain, love overlooks an offense, forgiveness is a prerequisite of love. The love went under the bridge because you choose not to love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes all the water that&#8217;s gone under the bridge has washed away the love that was there&#8230;</p>
<p>Comment: Love is not only something you feel. It’s something you do. Love is a choice, love does not focus on personal pain, love overlooks an offense, forgiveness is a prerequisite of love. The love went under the bridge because you choose not to love.</p>
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		<title>By: Brittney J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brittney J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 19:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this article, well, i should say that i enjoy it and i can definitely relate to it.  My husband hasn&#039;t been acting like he wants to please me lately and it makes our relationship dry from time to time.....any advice.... thanks so much! Brittney

Answer: Although love is received and one should be open to it, love is a giving thing. Feelings react to the actions of love, so perhaps you need to focus more on showing love, rather than receiving love? Try to ignite the passions from your side of the fence. You say it&#039;s dry, get creative. You do not have to wait on him to show love to you before you show love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this article, well, i should say that i enjoy it and i can definitely relate to it.  My husband hasn&#8217;t been acting like he wants to please me lately and it makes our relationship dry from time to time&#8230;..any advice&#8230;. thanks so much! Brittney</p>
<p>Answer: Although love is received and one should be open to it, love is a giving thing. Feelings react to the actions of love, so perhaps you need to focus more on showing love, rather than receiving love? Try to ignite the passions from your side of the fence. You say it&#8217;s dry, get creative. You do not have to wait on him to show love to you before you show love.</p>
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		<title>By: Love Tips » A Love Deficiency Dilemma, When Needs Are Not Being Met</title>
		<link>http://www.flowinglove.com/relationships/index.php/emotional-feelings/481/not-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2483</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Tips » A Love Deficiency Dilemma, When Needs Are Not Being Met</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 01:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So the man is not focusing on meeting the woman’s needs, and the woman is not focusing on meeting the mans needs, leaving each of them with an unmet needs dilemma, and some self-centered issues as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So the man is not focusing on meeting the woman’s needs, and the woman is not focusing on meeting the mans needs, leaving each of them with an unmet needs dilemma, and some self-centered issues as well.</p>
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