Comments on: Understanding Anger, Controlling Anger & Emotional Responses

By: Vasant

Vasant — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 06:44:01 +0000

This is very practical and educative article. I appreciated it very much. It is helpful to build the mutual understanding and relations. Thanks for it.

By: chichi

chichi — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 21:56:48 +0000

i must confess dat dis article came in really handy for me because i just had a quarrel wit my bf n was just tired of feelin dis way all the time.i started googling n found dis beautiful write-up which has lifted me and i believe would make me a better person from now on.wat if ur anger rises as a result of treating people d way u dnt want to be treated, believing that they cant do anything to them bt if you do treat them d way they treated you,you dnt go free because they believe they are older than you and also because they are men and women shud not get angry. pls reply through my email cus i dnt hv this site off-hand.thank you and God bless.

RESPONSE: Anger is a choice, you can choose not to be angry, you can choose to control your emotions. No body forces you, or makes you to be angry, you allow your anger to get the best of you. You need to learn how to control yourself, that is your responsibility, just as it is with everyone else. You can begin by stopping in the midst of your anger and getting honest with yourself as to why you are angry. Ask yourself, why am I really angry? What am I trying to obtain out of this? Is my anger really justified? There is always a root source for anger, and often times it’s because someone is not getting what they want. Proverbs 16:32; Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.

By: Okonkwo Chijioke kelvin

Okonkwo Chijioke kelvin — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 08:06:31 +0000

This publication is great! It explicitly analyzed factors responsible for over reaction to matters of the mind. It as well provides aid for Moral Speakers. Nevertheless, i am of a personality that gets easily offended and also forgives easily. My problem is that i find it more difficult to forgive women than men right from childhood as a result of a trauma I experienced in a woman's hand. Advise me. Forgiveness is a process, and Forgiveness will set you free from your own pain bondage Forgiving someone is not something you do for them, it’s for you, you are the one who benefits from forgiveness. How do you really know when you have forgiven? You have forgiven when you are no longer talking about the thing or person that you feel caused you the pain.

By: linda

linda — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 11:05:43 +0000

Hi, thanks for this inspirational words. i am the kind that easily get angry, mostly about the selfish behavior about others. i now have the knowledge about how to deal with this. may Jehovah bless you all.

By: jenelyn r.

jenelyn r. — Mon, 11 May 2009 02:25:24 +0000

this site is very helpful for a person like me maybe I’m too young I always get easily angry when things get wrong. thank you sir because now i know i can manage my temper wisely i got lot of ideas

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:11:33 +0000

Just wanted to say that I work with children ages 11-17 and we talk a lot about their anger. This information was helpful to think of more ideas for my clients and understanding their anger. Thanks.

By: Kennedy

Kennedy — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 09:36:19 +0000

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! I’ve been killing myself slowly all these years. Anger has been my drinking water all these years. After reading this, I think IF I have to let my emotions control my affairs, then I am done with life. Thank you very much.

Response: You have come to that realization , you are now blessed with a refreshing outlook.

By: Karen

Karen — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 19:15:24 +0000

This is all true what you say and; you make it sound oh, so simple. If only it were! When a person is in a relationship where you are pushed to the limit and; beyond, how does one control these emotions? It feels as though I am always having to be quiet, shut-up and; kiss butt! I try to come from a place of love, but it just seems to backfire and; I am taken advantage of, on an emotional level, and it gets tiring! I guess that is the point I am now at…TIRED! It is sound advice for many people, so keep up the good words.

Re: If you are in a physically abusive relationship you should seek safe refuge and assistance. If you are not, then I would like to ask you why you are allowing yourself to be taken advantage of? Is it hurt, frustration, or fear that is controlling you? What is making you to be quiet? What is preventing you from voicing your opinions in a healthy mature manner?

By: Angel

Angel — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:48:01 +0000

Hi, ya it is true, I am really anger person, I cannot control my anger and emotions. But now a days for people I am controlling it. Please pray for my good life and wonderful future. bye god bless u all……

By: Funmi

Funmi — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 13:49:13 +0000

Hi, this write-up touches an area I’ve been having challenges with, thanks. I am not an angry person, but little things trigger my anger and I end transferring it to everyone around me at that point in time. Please keep them coming! God bless you.