Reply, Sounds like you live in a country that is stuck in some old ways, where the parents think they are doing the right thing for their child’s sake. If you could, without being harmed, I would consider talking with her parents. This is your choice and you must first be aware of issues of your culture and how her parents may respond before you do it.

RESPONSE: Do you really want help or do you want help your way? If you really want help you need to first start with yourself. First, you need to learn to control your emotions, do not let your anger get the best of you. When you do that, you are not in control, your anger is in control of you. Emotions; Understanding Anger And Controlling Emotional Responses. Next take the focus off of what you want and focus on building a friendship between you, a friendship where you can work out your objections without fighting at a level of immaturity. And by taking the focus off of what you want, you will learn to love someone else for who they are, not for what you want from them. Love is giving, love sacrifices, love intently looks to meet the needs of others.