Answer: He is not ready for marriage, but he is ready for sex??? You probably already know this in your heart, but in order for you to get in alignment with the will of God, you need to stop. You should understand that because you are allowing yourself to be disrespected by him now, he may later disrespect you in other areas, and you will feel insecure until you are married, (assuming he ever follows thru). You should place a higher value on yourself and let him know that the only way that he can show you that he loves you is by his actions. Actions speak louder than words, and in this case it means a Ring and a marriage certificate before sex. I would also highly suggest that you seek pre-marital counseling before marriage. Of course you must make your own choices before God.