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      Better Love Making Tips, Ways For Women To Have Better Sex

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      There is no mistake that you are reading this, you really do want to know the ways that women can have great sex. You may find the information that you are about to read on better love making for women to be shocking. Everything you may have learned to this point in your life about having great sex may not be an accurate representation. Society and cultural teachings want you to believe their ways for a woman to have better sex, (that's because sex sells). The following facts are being shared with you so that you will have some real insights into the ways that women can have better sex lives.

      Society teaches that more is better, bigger is better, and when it comes down to it, the more sexual partners a woman has, the less her chances are of having better love making experiences. How can I say that? I know this may be troublesome to many people who read this, especially women, but you need to know these details for yourself. Oxytocin is a known female hormone secreted by the posterior pituitary gland, (trade name Pitocin); it stimulates contractions of the uterus and ejection of milk. It's a neurochemical that binds couples together, often referred to as the "cuddle hormone" or "bonding hormone." From biology’s perspective, it's main function is to bond us to our children for life, however it also serves to bond us to our mate.

      What does oxytocin have to do with women having better sex? For each sex partner a woman has her level of oxytocin decreases. Just as if you were walking a flight of stairs, with each downward step representing a sexual partner, your release level of oxytocin steps downward. The more sexual partners a woman has, the more likely she is to struggle due to a lack of oxytocin release. In this scenario more is not better, bigger is not better, it's worse. It's not beneficial for a woman to continue to look for great sex with additional partners. Doing this is not doing anything for her, but it may become her undoing. The less oxytocin a woman releases, the more she struggles physically with arriving at the same level of sensation.

      There are also some correlating findings from divorce case studies that relate to this sexual health issue. For women, (aged 30 plus), who remain monogamous, who have only had one sexual partner, their rate of divorce is only twenty percent. Now that statistic jumps increasing so with a second partner, the divorce rate for women who have had two sex partners is 50 percent! Are you seeing this? As soon as a woman has had sex with more than one man, the percentage more than doubles. Finally, the divorce rate for women who have had 3 partners is roughly 60 percent. If you are a woman, review the oxytocin information above and combine that with the divorce rate statistics, what do you have?

      Wait there's more! Combine the two paragraphs above with this scripture from 1 Corinthians 6:18 (NLT); Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. Could it be that the sin spoken of above can actually be found in the decrease of your own oxytocin output? Is it becoming evident that you are harming yourself while you are pursuing better sex with multiple partners? Are you one who has been complaining about how your husband, or how men do not satisfy you? If so, how many sexual partners have you had? This is the way of a false wife; she takes food, and, cleaning her mouth, says, I have done no wrong. (Proverbs 30:20).

      This article is not intended on overwhelming you with guilt, everyone has sinned and we all fall short of the grace of God, (we make mistakes). The intentions of this article are to arm you with insights and understanding in order to help you and your relationships. However, if you are honest with yourself and find you need help with this difficulty, you can recover if you stop, and with sincerity of your heart ask God for forgiveness. Because, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9).

      Really the key to better sex for women is in the shortcut, which means less partners, the best case scenario is one, the one you marry. God wants couples to stay together in their marriage relationships, it helps them to learn to love, and helps them to avoid the physical and emotional ramifications of doing otherwise. God knows us better than we knows ourselves, He is our creator, and like any good Father he gives us instructions that are for our own good. When we don't listen, it can be similar to the know it all children we have, sometimes they have to learn the hard way. I pray that you will have and be full of wise discretion.


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      9 Responses to “Better Love Making Tips, Ways For Women To Have Better Sex”

      1. 1
        stufid Says:

        this article is moronic. so you are saying if i pray to God for forgivness he will increase my oxytocin level? are you stupid or just stupid?

        Answer: I think there are some key words in the article that you may have missed, those words were; “with sincerity of your heart”. The promises of God do not return void, regardless of your personal opinions, the truth remains constant. Sometimes people get stuck in thought patterns that leave them with dead ends, stuck in their own stuckness with denial, even when the truth strikes a cord in their heart.

        See if you read this in the above comments; What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? (Romans 6:1). Repent, (change), & ask Jesus for forgiveness.
        …..”With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26

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        I Love You » Size Does Not Matter, Who You Are Matters, Size These Quotes! Says:

        Society has taught women that they have to have excellent curves and wear provocative attire to attract men, that is only true if you would like lustful eyes looking upon you as if you were on the dinner menu, (ladies, you are not a piece of meat). Your self worth is not something that you can purchase.

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        Rebecca Says:

        Amen, I agree that.” ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD.”

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        Janet Says:

        I think the way you support your point of view in other articles are excellent. In this one I do not know. What about men? Their brain releases oxytocin when having an orgasm as well. Why does not the brain of a man who has had many partners miss its ability to release oxytocin? Any way, your article is brilliant taking into account supporting facts.

        ANSWER: This article was not about men, however you do bring up a question that is certainly worthy of touching on. Men and women are different, (that is a huge supporting fact), and this is one of those areas where that difference is exhibited. Even though men and women produce relatively equal amounts of oxytocin, there are strong differences. Why? Because men produce testosterone which tends to mute oxytocin’s effects, while estrogen enhances those effects. It seems like you are having a personal objection with what is said in the article, sometimes we don’t want to hear what we don’t want to hear. Even so, it is better to have understanding than to not have it at all. At least with understanding, one could implement a course correction if necessary.

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        Jacqueline Says:

        I just wanted to say thank you for this insight and I know it to be Godly truth. With God all things are possible but man is limited. To be able to truly understand all that has been said here one must first be able to open ourselves up to a deeper revelation of our own experiences and realize in getting wisdom to proceed we must first truly embrace and get understanding about us as a whole person . THANK YOU FOR THE ARTICLE, IT HELPED ME TO SEE FROM ALL DIFFERENT SIDES.
        JACQUELINE

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        Jami Says:

        Thanks. It is a lovely article. God Bless you.

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        Michelle Says:

        Thank you for the articles you write. They are not only educational but inspiring and hopeful as they are filled with God’s words and desires from his children. In reference to this article, how many partners does a woman have to have been with before her ability to produce oxytocin is depleted. I was sexually active in my teens and before getting married. I would say I had relationships with some men (-edited word some). I have had 2 marriages that both ended with the passing of my husband. I am now in a wonderful relationship. Although we are not married, we are engaged and we are sexually active. I seem to have drive and desire most of the time but not all. Am i doomed to never having a warm, caring, loving intimate relationship with him?

        COMMENT: There are variables in this, God does give us grace. How was your it with your last marriage? Because;
        A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39). Could it be that the current knowledge of your current sin is playing a part with your emotions as well?

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        John Says:

        Good article… But when a woman is in the position of having had to many partners how does she reverse this negative phenomenon? How does she Break the cycle and love only one, how can she be fixed?

        Answer: What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? (Romans 6:1). Repent, (change), & ask Jesus for forgiveness.

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        Bi Says:

        Thanks alot for the article, it usually is not a womans making to have more than one sexual partner, but when a relationship fails you find yourself in another. I appreciat your know how, it helps ne to know how useless i get with more than one sex partner, Ibelieve God gives me the grace to meet the man of my dreams soon

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