Comments on: Better Love Making Tips, Ways For Women To Have Better Sex

By: Michelle

Michelle — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 19:36:50 +0000

Thank you for the articles you write. They are not only educational but inspiring and hopeful as they are filled with God’s words and desires from his children. In reference to this article, how many partners does a woman have to have been with before her ability to produce oxytocin is depleted. I was sexually active in my teens and before getting married. I would say I had relationships with some men (-edited word some). I have had 2 marriages that both ended with the passing of my husband. I am now in a wonderful relationship. Although we are not married, we are engaged and we are sexually active. I seem to have drive and desire most of the time but not all. Am i doomed to never having a warm, caring, loving intimate relationship with him?

COMMENT: There are variables in this, God does give us grace. How was your it with your last marriage? Because;
A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39). Could it be that the current knowledge of your current sin is playing a part with your emotions as well?

By: Jami

Jami — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 13:57:31 +0000

Thanks. It is a lovely article. God Bless you.

By: Jacqueline

Jacqueline — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:10:09 +0000

I just wanted to say thank you for this insight and I know it to be Godly truth. With God all things are possible but man is limited. To be able to truly understand all that has been said here one must first be able to open ourselves up to a deeper revelation of our own experiences and realize in getting wisdom to proceed we must first truly embrace and get understanding about us as a whole person . THANK YOU FOR THE ARTICLE, IT HELPED ME TO SEE FROM ALL DIFFERENT SIDES.
JACQUELINE

By: Janet

Janet — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 23:20:55 +0000

I think the way you support your point of view in other articles are excellent. In this one I do not know. What about men? Their brain releases oxytocin when having an orgasm as well. Why does not the brain of a man who has had many partners miss its ability to release oxytocin? Any way, your article is brilliant taking into account supporting facts.

ANSWER: This article was not about men, however you do bring up a question that is certainly worthy of touching on. Men and women are different, (that is a huge supporting fact), and this is one of those areas where that difference is exhibited. Even though men and women produce relatively equal amounts of oxytocin, there are strong differences. Why? Because men produce testosterone which tends to mute oxytocin’s effects, while estrogen enhances those effects. It seems like you are having a personal objection with what is said in the article, sometimes we don’t want to hear what we don’t want to hear. Even so, it is better to have understanding than to not have it at all. At least with understanding, one could implement a course correction if necessary.

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:13:04 +0000

Amen, I agree that.” ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD.”

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I Love You » Size Does Not Matter, Who You Are Matters, Size These Quotes! — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 20:25:51 +0000

Society has taught women that they have to have excellent curves and wear provocative attire to attract men, that is only true if you would like lustful eyes looking upon you as if you were on the dinner menu, (ladies, you are not a piece of meat). Your self worth is not something that you can purchase.

By: stufid

stufid — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 17:36:02 +0000

this article is moronic. so you are saying if i pray to God for forgivness he will increase my oxytocin level? are you stupid or just stupid?

Answer: I think there are some key words in the article that you may have missed, those words were; “with sincerity of your heart”. The promises of God do not return void, regardless of your personal opinions, the truth remains constant. Sometimes people get stuck in thought patterns that leave them with dead ends.

…..”With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26