Comments on: Love Making The Right Way, Intimate Relationship Bonding Advice

By: Bronwyn

Bronwyn — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 08:04:04 +0000

How true this is. God’s plan for man and woman/marriage is PERFECT in every way. We sin by fornicating and have no idea of the consequences of our actions, often blaming God for the fallout damage. When we become sexually intimate we effectively put up a block against getting to really know each other. Sexual union forms a soul-tie and when the two ’split’ the pain can be unbearable and take years to get over. God is the only one who can mend a fragmented soul torn apart by illicit sex and/or adultry/fornication.

By: sharon

sharon — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 09:43:03 +0000

I think your right to, I've been married 21 years, We became lovers before we were friends. We never show any love or attraction to each other, no matter how hard i try. I always get my feelings hurt cause he acts like I'm not even there. I'm stuck in this marriage no way out, no love respect or happiness just trapped in an abusive lonely life. Answer: You are only trapped by your own restrictive thoughts. When people want to lose weight they seek out all sorts of information on loosing diets and such. But when they encounter relationship issues they freeze in their tracks. Our issues in relationships begin with us, not with where our finger is pointing all the time, accept that initial prerequisite and then you have room for development and increase. Start with the source of love, which is God, pray for direction and insights. Then see watch these funny but enlightening DVD's with your spouse and keep seeking wisdom to improve your marriage.

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 02:31:10 +0000

Hi Angel, thanks for sharing. I’m in the same boat as you but I’m still in this loveless marriage. Don’t wanna rock the boat cause got kids involved. I often wish for lust to make me feel like a woman again. I know it’s wrong but I’ve feelings too.

Comment: Sometimes people need to take the initiative and ignite the passion that they seek within their own proximity. Love is a choice, and it’s your choice to sit around looking for it to come to you, or to show it to your spouse in order to get the wheels moving again. Love looks to meet the needs of others, and when you do that, you start something. You do not have to wait on him to do something, refresh the environment, create a change right where you are.

By: chomy

chomy — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 10:30:02 +0000

THE ADVICE IS REALLY BONDING. SEX IS NOT LOVE AT ALL. I HAVE DATED FOR TWO YEARS WITHOUT SEX AND OUR RELATIONSHIP IS STILL HEALTHY AND STRONG

By: maggie

maggie — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 11:45:17 +0000

well the advice is so good, i wish my boyfriend who we have being dating for six months could understand that and stop asking me for sex.

By: Joseph

Joseph — Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:49:33 +0000

Very good advise

By: A. Olukemi

A. Olukemi — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 17:43:38 +0000

You are so right. I still am dating with my fiance and we made up our mind never make love until after our marriage, but we are enjoying ourselves so much. We share everything together, love, joy, laughter, everything. We talk through the night on phone and we discuss everything, I mean everything. And believe me we never thought of satisfying each other sexually outside of wedlock. If there is any score to settle, we know how we do it. Sweet words, and we know what exactly to tell each other. It really works, not having sex before marriage, and communication is very very essential.

By: Angel

Angel — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 18:56:42 +0000

You are SO RIGHT! When I 1st met & started dating my husband, we had sex on our 3rd date. We casually dated maybe 3xs a week. We married in 1999, and by 2002 had drifted so far apart...there wasn't any communication, friendship or common interests. He kept to himself, became distant and secretive. When I tried to talk with him about anything he would become extremely angry, verbally abusive and walk away. Then in 2005 after being nothing more then silent roommates, he packed up and moved in with his girlfriend of several years. I've tried to maked things work, did so much his way, eventually just gave up and became a recluse, avoided friends, quit caring...wallowed in self pity for this failure... I've "punished" myself during the last 3 yrs for this failed marriage. Finally coming out this, realizing that takes so much more to make a relationship / marriage work. And oh yes, both partners have to work at it all their lifelong.