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    True Love Feelings, Emotional Feelings Of Love

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    The feelings of love we feel come from an initiation of love, where love intercommunicates loving intentions. The feelings of love follow the affections of love by way of love intentionality. In other words, love feelings follow loving actions. Love feelings are felt within our hearts, we feel the love that others touch us with, and our emotions rise in response to the love that we feel. Everybody wants to feel the emotional feelings associated with love, and the feelings that accompany loves euphoria.

    The emotional feelings of love bring us to a feeling of elation, an exhilarating psychological state of great joy. Often it is our ability to appreciate the love that we receive that elevates our emotional feelings. However we sometimes allow our feelings to overtake us in the early stages of our relationships and we actually become infatuated. These feelings of euphoria may actually lead us into infatuation, which is an object of extravagant short-lived passion. These feelings of love, (misrepresented as love), are usually associated to exuberant passion, in temporary admiration. Many times it is due to this infatuated state that people become hurt because they are unable to control their emotional feelings.

    The feelings associated with infatuation are more common among adolescents and younger adults. There are plenty of young women who are so taken by their feelings, and their hormones, that they give themselves away prematurely. They then wonder, and seek to answer the question; If he had sex with me does that mean he loves me? The answer to that question is no, having sex with you does not mean that he loves you. It means that he lusts you, and you lusted him, you had sexual feelings, not love feelings. Unfortunately, our society and it's cultural teachings associate sex to love, when in reality, sex outside of the context of marriage is generally lust driven. It's generally a self absorbing physical desire to selfishly meet ones own physical mania. Sex alone does not meet loves criteria, because love is not self seeking. Love feelings follow love actions, sexual feelings often follow reactions to lust driven desires. We are all human, and we all experience the desires of our flesh, however true love feelings are associated with a deep relational bonding, not just physical intimacy.

    Everyone has a desire to be loved and to naturally feel the feelings that accompany love. Remember though that the feelings come in reaction to the love that is expressed. This means that love must first be bestowed in order for the feelings of love to follow. So for you to be feeling the feelings of love means that someone had to express, show, or convey love to you in some form or fashion. It is at this juncture that many people get stuck, they get stuck on their own self interests, they like the love, so they selfishly look to acquire more for themselves. Kind of sounds a lot like what people do with money right? We all battle with inward selfishness and our culture teaches us that more is better, (more for ourselves). Love does not seek it's own desires, it looks to fulfill the needs of others.

    If you are feeling the feelings of love, wouldn't you want to know that your spouse or partner is also having those same feelings? Love begins by presentation, show love to your husband, give love to your wife, and they too will enjoy the feelings of love. There are many people who ask the question; how do I get my husband to love me? or.. How do I get my girlfriend to love me? Simply, start with your own loving behavior, quit thinking about what you want to receive and start giving love to them. Ignite their love feelings, and thus the responses to love, by your own initiation. Make love a habit, you can not spread love onto others and not receive it yourself. Kiss me and kiss me again, for your love is sweeter than wine. Song Of Songs 1:2

    Intention is multiplied by action, act your way into a loving behavior and you will accomplish loving feelings. Execute love, seek to satisfy the needs of your wife, girlfriend, husband, or boyfriend. Provide love an opening to bring about those feelings of love. Supply love like oxygen, and the love feelings will follow. We must show love through actions that are sincere, not through empty words. 1 John 3:18

    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

    This is my prayer for you: that your love will grow more and more, and that you will have knowledge and understanding with your love. Philippians 1:9

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    29 Responses to “True Love Feelings, Emotional Feelings Of Love”

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    1. 29
      sowmiya Says:

      hi im loving one guy.. he also loving me sincerely that guys mom accepted our love.. she also very friendly to me.. but my family is not accepting my love. I want to live happily with my parents and my lover what to do??

      REPLY:
      You will find that in life you can’t make everyone happy all the time, and if you try to, you will certainly not be true to yourself, and you will set yourself up for a pattern of life long people pleasing. Trying to please others is not healthy, trying to please God is!

    2. 28
      Ashraf dar Says:

      i love one girl she is my facebook friend she is already marry and has one baby but i no problem about him about ,i love her more than my love,i cant live with out her but sorry she also love me but as a but, i dont know what i do can you help me, im sad and alone now with out her.

      INFATUATION
      1. A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.
      2. An object of extravagant, short-lived passion.

    3. 27
      abcd Says:

      My engagement relationship from last 2 year before our engagement my Fiance have a b.f she also loved but after engagement she forget that guys n make relationship as a friend only but last
      before 2 month she relationship with her in a physical n before 10days that guys come at my home and inform me that v lover each other and then I ask my Fiance also do u really love him so she said no n told me everything that from last 2 month only I did huge that I make relationship with him so right know m confused what I vl do I told my Fiance also if u love him so I leave from ur life buts she said no I love u j nly now what I will please give good solution.

      REPLY, Its hard to make out what you are saying. But it does sound like there is at least 1 too many people in the relationship. Somebody is not being faithful.

    4. 26
      Sandip Says:

      i love a one girl in Nigeria, every day i cry for her, she is telling me everyday she love’s me, but i never feel her love, if i call her any moment she just shout at me, she want to collect something that time she talk to me very well, after collecting this material she start the real nature, i do not what can i do. in mid night if i call her phone is waiting since 01 hours after that if i ask her she just shout at me any how, but Truly i love her very well. please suggest me what can i do, if i want to forgot her but i am unable to how i forgot.

      REPLY: You can not continue to appease someone every time they “cry out like a baby”, you will only end up in the same circumstance again. Stop giving candy to the baby. What is she shouting about? Could there be a deeper reason for her behavior? Understanding is key, try to understand the source reason for her anger/shouting. The root reason is usually different from the surface complaint, what is going on in her area that has her so frustrated?
      A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
      A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, But the slow to anger calms a dispute. Proverbs 15:18
      Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone. Proverbs 25:15
      Hatred stirs up strifes: but love covers all sins. Proverbs 10:12

    5. 25
      Prem Says:

      i have facebook friend which i love very much .and want to marry with her but she dosen’t give any reply now a days ..how can i get her?

      REPLY: It sounds like you have never met in person, since it does not sound like you have any other means of contact. With that in mind, frankly, you are not ready to marry. You can not possibly know someone simply by facebook visits. You need to meet in person, get to know each other at a more meaningful and realistic level. Perhaps you scared her off with your desire to marry her without a more personal level of communication??? Try getting a phone number and conversing first, if you can. But don’t push right now, you probably shocked her enough already.

    6. 24
      Miss A Says:

      I love one person so Much.. Some miss understanding came up.. So we are separated now.. I still love him … And how can i get the love from him back..

      REPLY: Be honest with yourself, was it really a miss understanding? Did you do something that would hurt the trust of the relationship? Your question is quite vague, what is missing?

    7. 23
      emmy Says:

      Why do people feel having sex is expressing their love?

      REPLY: Because they do not understand what love is.

    8. 22
      Sara Says:

      I am a devoted christian and i will be turning 29 soon. I have kept myself all these years, hoping for a God fearing man to find me. I had a revelation 2 years ago and it’s related to whom i shall marry(God didn’t give me the name directly) it was more like character-wise instructions. My friends sometimes pick on me because they think i am too extreme with my Christianity. I don’t drink, don’t club and i don’t mess around…I’m quite strict and disciplined and yet i get criticized for that a lot…There’s this guy i truly like and can’t wait for him to ask me out. He is not cute but God fearing, committed through fruitful service in his church. I see him maybe once in a month but i can’t stop thinking about him….i feel like God is taking forever..well i know he makes everything beautiful in his time and i should not give God a deadline…i guess i just need someone to talk to…i fast and pray from time to time so i won’t lose my mind…i know i’m supposed to live above my emotions n stuff….I have so much to talk about….so much….

      COMMENT: So why don’t you ask him if he’d like to get a cup of coffee?

    9. 21
      bisola Says:

      my boyfriend is having a baby with another lady….its so hard for me to let go…i love him so much…nd i know he loves me too…please advise me cos i'm a tight corner now,

      REPLY; Too often people think with their feelings and not with their heads, it’s very common in these matters. Just so you are aware of it, this is what you are doing. Based on your emotions I suspect you too gave yourself away prematurely, right? Just because a man wants to have sex with you does not mean that he loves you. Furthermore if he has sex with another lady, then he certainly does NOT love you. How could he love you and turn around and do that? That is a selfish act, not an act of love. You should be happy that you are not the one that is pregnant, and that you get another chance to get it right. Next time, control yourself, build a foundation based on friendship and do not give yourself away until you are married. Otherwise you disrespect yourself and you allow another to not only take advantage of you, but to disrespect you as well.

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