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      Does He Love Me? Does She? Signs He or She Loves You

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      In the representation of feelings towards others, actions really speak louder than words. Often time’s people say things that are not backed up by their behavior. Many people will use deceptive tactics that are in their own best interests, in order to achieve their own personal desires. It takes time to get to know someone and more importantly to get a clear view of their character, you can not read a book by it’s cover. Take that into consideration the next time you encounter a salesman, especially those who make their income based upon commission. If someone is trying to push you into something that you are not feeling comfortable with, it’s generally going to be motivated by selfishness.

      What are some of the things you can look for in order to know if someone really cares or has interest in you? In the beginning of a potential relationship you should look for the simple things, like are they attempting to contact you in some fashion? Understand that if someone calls you they had to be thinking of you first in order to initiate the call. The same thing goes with an email, a text message, or even a card in the mail. Hopefully, in this stage, their intent is to get to know you on a friendship level. In the dating stages you should be looking to see if his or her interests are reflective of their behavior. Take your time and determine if they are content with talking to you on the phone, see if he or she truly enjoys and appreciates those kinds of opportunities.

      When you are together with someone ascertain if he or she is enjoying being with you, or if they are trying to initiate something beyond spending quality time with you. Remember that there are many people who may find you physically attractive and they may wish to pursue that aspect of a relationship. The physical aspect of a relationship should be reserved for the substantial bonding of marital bliss. Understand that your judgment will be clouded by your emotions if you allow physical intimacy into your relationship foundation. You want a guy or a gal that is enjoying your companionship and fellowship. Get a feeling for his or her desire to associate with you as a buddy or pal. Let go of all those romantic dreams and fantasies until the relationship has matured enough to warrant it.

      As time goes along determine by their actions if he or she is looking forward to making contact with you on a daily basis. The more time you spend together in communication and in companionship, the greater your bonding. Determine if he or she is putting off other things in order to make room to spend quality time with you. Are they going out of their way to be with you? Or are you feeling like you have been put on a shelf while he or she is pursuing other interests?

      Another thing to look for are the things that he or she may be willing to do for you, as well as the gifts they may give you, (as long as it does not appear that they are trying to buy you). Generally if a guy brings you flowers or other small gifts that is a positive. However if it appears as though he is trying to impress you with his financial wealth in some manner, that might say to proceed with caution. Look for simple things, like are they trying to help you accomplish things that are important to you? If you tell him or her that your car needs washing, do they ask if they can assist you? If he or she did, it would establish a positive intent. If they are going grocery shopping do they ask if they can pick anything up for you? Remember it’s the thought that counts, and these kinds of actions may demonstrate an otherness mindset.

      Actions are far more likely to demonstrate true intentions than are words, words are cheap. She wants to know, does he love me? Either may want to know when to say I love you and both probably want to hear it. Ladies, if he loves you, let his words be backed up by his actions, let him get you a ring! Don’t give yourselves up prematurely, if you do it will cost you significant emotional pain, keep your self respect and your dignity. Guys if she really loves you, she’ll say yes when you give her the ring.

      We must show love through actions that are sincere, not through mere empty words. 1 John 3:18

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      33 Responses to “Does He Love Me? Does She? Signs He or She Loves You”

      1. Sonny Says:
        October 14th, 2008 at 8:44 am

        I’m grateful for the these topics that really shapes relationships and marriages. I happen to get them at the right time and I believe its the Almighty God who knows what I’m going through and I thank you all for the good work done to unite marriages and relationships. God bless you abundantly.

      2. Rachael Says:
        January 22nd, 2009 at 3:29 pm

        pls i want to know, if a guy promise to spend the rest of his life with a girl on phone.. i mean proposing on phone because of distance and promise to marry her immediately she come back from the state.. but on the other hand, the guy can stay a month without calling and when eventually she call, he says is due to work stress and that mere hearing her voice on phone makes him lack concentration..my Question is “Do YOU THINK HE IS REAL”?

        -Answer: Actions speak louder than words, what do his actions say to you? You need to make your own decision here, honestly ask yourself; do I think he is real? Then honestly answer yourself. I think you already know the answer, do not let your emotions cloud your judgement.

      3. jennifer mintah Says:
        April 22nd, 2009 at 9:19 am

        when you have a guy and you visit him and he don’t even talk unless you are alone even when you ask him question he dont want to answer is that real love? he dont call, I do the calling always, i dont know please i need solution.

        Answer: Just like in dancing the man is to take the lead. Let him call you, and then by his actions you will know the answer. Control your emotions and do not be so anxious, be at peace in patience.

      4. jenny Says:
        April 24th, 2009 at 6:49 am

        you have a guy and always demanding for sex and a time comes and you dont give in than he will not call you even he dont want to see you but he you give in he will always be free with you telling you all sort of of words he dont even help you in terms of money if you discuss about your education than he just turn off the discusion is that also love.

        Answer: Selfish…. not love. Quality love wants to meet your emotional needs, that does not necessarily include money. Remember the old saying, can’t buy me love?

      5. nnnnn Says:
        June 13th, 2009 at 3:39 am

        hi, am with this guy for a year and almost a month..he had never gift me anything, even when i asked for it…i always give him things as gifts, i know he loves me, but am not sure… he takes money from me cause his financial situation is not really good, for 2 times that it was my birthday he did not call till i did, he had excuses…
        he had the chance to propose but he did not cause he said he is not prepared yet, but he keeps saying it will be soon, and he wants it more than i do. and that good days are still to come… i dunno please tell me

        Answer: I do not know either. You say you know he loves you, then you say you are not sure……if you are not sure, then you dont know. It sounds like he might be lacking some thoughtfulness, but I can not tell you what to do, you have your own choices in life to make. I would suggest that you NOT give yourself away physically in the mean time though.

      6. Terry Says:
        June 21st, 2009 at 3:59 pm

        In a long distance relationship use to call me a 4-5 may more a in a day now he text or only calls when he isn’t near anyone to hear him talking to me. Than stated the other day he knows I love him and he really loves me but then says he wished he wasn’t so fickled right now. How am I suppose to take this and what is it suppose to imply as he texted me that and i always let him do the calling and now he always has an excuse as to why he didn’t call. Help with what you think this means am I wasting me time on this guy or not?? I am 47 years old don’t want to waste much more time seems i am always there for him but he never is for me and takes him hours I mean hours to respond to my text messages to him. Tell me should I just let go and run??

        Answer: fickled means; marked by erratic changeableness in affections or attachments. Honestly, that does not sound like love. You say; just let go and run because you are feeling hurt. You are not getting your needs met in the relationship and you want to feel like you matter to him. It is also going to be difficult getting needs met, (on either side), in a long distance relationship. Back to this; I love you is an outward expression, but do the actions show it? I would like to suggest that you join into a small group at your local Christian church, here you would find love, give love and receive Gods direction for your life.

      7. Mella Says:
        July 14th, 2009 at 6:45 pm

        I met this new guy and the first time I met him, he took me to his house. Big, nice house and on the first night he tried to sleep with me. I told him no but it didn’t stop there, its like every time I’m around him he wants something of that nature (and its only been the 3rd date). Even thought I didn’t give in, now he won’t return my phone calls, or if I do happen to catch him on the phone he will be like “i’m going to call you back” and I don’t hear from him. He is very busy at work but and I knew this to being with, but now I’m starting to wonder. We are just friends, so should I assume that he really wasn’t planning on taking me seriously and just stop calling altogether? I really like him, but I feel like he has someone else.

        Answer: Don’t look at the material house, it’s the house within any person that is important. The guy is looking to get his needs met, he just wants sex. Now since you have not given it too him, he is not calling. He is not looking for relationship and you are not a piece of meat on his dinner table. Look for someone you can build a friendship with and don’t give up your dignity for anyone.

      8. yvette Says:
        July 24th, 2009 at 9:56 am

        i have been with my boyfriend off and on for a little over a year. it’s been a rough ride, but for some reason, i still love him, mostly bc of his spontaneity, our common interests and his family and friends. he moved out of town 9 months ago and we’ve had a long distance relationship since then, also off and on. we argue so much bc he is very rude and very jealous, but i still love him and no one seems to compare to him. it’s so hard for me to move on. this summer, he wanted to move in with me, but he was just starting to treat me so badly that i was very reluctant and told him no, so we broke up and he changed his plans. i felt so empty without him and about 3 weeks ago we got back together and things just aren’t the same as they were before. each time he’s come back to me, but this time, i am the one who asked him if he was willing to reconcile. he hardly calls or texts me now and goes out almost every night, saving talking to me til’ the very LAST part of his day, whereas he used to make time to talk to me. we talk about 5 minutes a day, if that. in person, we are intimate, but he’s not as “loving” as he used to be. when we talk, he is very rude, for the most trivial things. he’ll raise his voice and seems annoyed at every little thing that i say or do. he gets angry if i so much ask him a question, yet last weekend he paid for my daughter and i to come see him and he insists that he loves me still. he’ll ask me to call him, but he never answers, and so when he asks me to call is say, “well why don’t you just call me when you’re not busy?” and he gets angry and is like, “you know what, nevermind. just forget it.” since actions speak louder than words, i know he has lost interest in me, but my question is, why does he keep me dangling there? i don’t understand.

        Answer: There is some deeper stuff than what appears on the surface. There are some things he is not talking about that are bothering him. Now, this could be some emotional stuff from within your relationship where he feels hurt by something you have said or done, or it could be that some older issues are coming up from within him that have not been resolved, that are somehow being awakened in your relationship. Jealousy has to do with personal insecurity, the question is why does he feel insecure? Fighting often stems from one person, or both, who are not being honest about something. However, trying to dig at the issue will not help you, you would need to let him tell you the things that are bothering him, in his own time. I would like to suggest that you rent the movie Fireproof and watch it together at your next opportunity.

      9. Kim Says:
        July 31st, 2009 at 6:16 am

        I have a guy that I have been seeing for a little over a year. We actually lived together for a few months. I left because I couldn’t stand the how lonely I felt. He needed all of this personal time alone to be with his cows and his garden. He never would call he only would text. He also had a friend that he would text and see and tell me they were just friends she would call me and it appeared she knew more about what he was doing then I did. Well over the last several months we have been seeing each other again. He says he loves me and wants
        to marry me. He is currently in New York his daughter is getting married. Now I would like to know am I wrong if I send a simple text saying Love You shouldn’t I receive a simple text back I am not asking for more then 2 seconds of his time. Am I being selfish? Or will I always take the back burner with this guy?

        Answer: You both have needs in the relationship, 1 of your needs is to know that he loves you. Perhaps the thing to do is to relay that to him in a clear manner so that he will make better efforts to love you the way you need it, not the way he thinks. Us guys often do not understand, because we are guys, that women have different emotional needs than we do. Now if he is unable to show you love, in the places you need it, after he fully understands those places, then he might have some issues holding him back. People can not give what they do not have to give. I hope this has helped you, please also read Say I Love You Now, While You Still Can

      10. Danielle Says:
        August 1st, 2009 at 12:18 am

        I’ve been with my bf for 2 and a half years and i’m pretty sure i love him but even though he tells me every day he loves me too its still hard for me to believe him.. He’s the sweetest guy i know he always makes time for me and never leaves me feeling upset or lonely he always calls and makes sure i’m ok. I see him everyday but sometimes he’ll blow off one of our plans to go play video games with a friend that i don’t see eye to eye with and he thinks there’s nothing wrong, or he’ll flirt with some of our friends right there in front of me and act like it never happened. He told me once that he cheated on me with one of my best friends that i knew he had asked out before, and still had strong feelings for when i confronted her she told me that she knew nothing about it and that was that. a few months later another friend told me that they saw him sneek off with her and when i ask him about it he seemed ashamed. I don’t know, he gets depressed when i tell him its hard for me to believe that he loves me because of his past, even though i’ve seen a change in him i still can’t forget wat he’s done to me in the past! I don’t want to make him seem like a bad guy cause i know he tries to protect me from getting hurt but it always seems like he’s the cause of my tears… I don’t want to leave him and he really is a sweet heart but i dk if i can believe him after the way i’ve watched him act with other girls for so long… Thats my point; Even though i love him i have doubts about it all, after all the things he’s done and he’s put it off as nothing i makes me think that when he says i love you he’s just saying it because he dosen’t want anyone to be unhappy.

        Answer: You are insecure in the relationship, with some good reason. And because of the unfaithfulness, the trust has been shattered. It takes time to build trust and it takes time to heal. But understand that if he says he is sorry, and means it, then he should be making every effort to show he means it by his actions. The best way to protect you from getting hurt is for him to do the right thing, and that means to make you feel and know that you are #1, and that there are no number 2’s! Remember that if someone says I love you, that their actions should show it. Keep your self respect, do not give yourself away without a marriage certificate.

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