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While dating look for someone who knows the Lord, someone you can be friends with forever, someone who knows what love is and knows how to love, someone who is giving & caring, someone you can have some fun with, someone you enjoy talking to, someone that supports you but does not enable you, someone who will compromise, a person that will speaks words of affirmation and encouragement, that is compassionate, that is clothed with humility, that does not gossip or slander, someone who prefers you over themselves, and someone that will pray together with you.
…….and then be that person yourself.
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Realize that "I Love You" is an outward expression. You may love what somebody does for you, and you may fall in love, but when you say those special 3 words, back it up by expressing it through your actions. Show your love by giving it externally. Meet your spouses or significant others emotional needs where they need it. Be thoughtful and take the time to do and say the things that will communicate to them that you love them. It takes time to find out what things to say and do that will exhibit your love for someone else, this is one reason why it is important in dating to get to know someone before you plunge off into a more intimate relationship with them. Your dates will demonstrate to you what they are made of, if your perception is clear. As you are dating look for loving character attributes, look for giving people, seek out singles who are not just dating for sexual relations. Temporary gratification in dating relationships will only lead to long term difficulties. Everyone has faults and shortcomings, so don’t be looking for perfect singles, but instead be looking for healthy dating singles who are searching for the meaningful togetherness bond of their life. © 2008 Jon Morgan RiverSongs.com
Look to incorporate these Love Advice Guidelines into a successful long lasting love relationship.
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September 21st, 2011 at 3:19 pm
Year. today is ma 1st time on this site and am in a period of fasting and prayer for my soul-mate.
it close to two months since i was really hurt by my x. I love what I just found here and i want to learn on this site for my success in love.
Thanks.
June 11th, 2011 at 4:41 am
This is really lovely Im in to a relationship, but my partner seems not to believe me in anything i said to her, please tell me what to do, but i love this girl so much, the love i have for her can let to married.
is really encouraging I would like to receive teaching on singles and more advice thanks, Roland forbi
RESPONSE: This most likely is her issue, she is insecure, it could stem from a low self-esteem or perhaps due to a relationship she had in the past where she was hurt. Where she is afraid of the same thing happening, where she puts her trust in someone who fails her. Yet nobody is perfect, expecting perfection is a false pretense, and it will leave people hurt if they can not get over their own unrealistic expectations. Ask her if she has been hurt before by someone. If you want to show her that you really love her, get a ring. And watch Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage
together to increase your abilities to love and understand each other.
September 27th, 2009 at 7:13 pm
Any chance that I can talk to some one personally on the phone. I am going through very emotional hardship, it is really hard to decide at this moment, unless some one give moral support to me. After I started to read this site posts I do believe in here some one will help / will get some support. Advance thanks.
August 27th, 2009 at 8:07 am
God bless you for this site and very wonderful write-ups. I’m really so glad. We ladies should respect the fact that we are wonderfully and fearfully made and our bodies are the temple of the Living God. Don’t be carried away by “I love you” a number of guys say just to get you to satisfy their emotions and sexual needs. I was in a relationship which ended because I did not compromise on my standards and did not give in to sex. Don’t be scared or intimidated that your friends are married with kids or that you are aging. Keep working on yourself and God will give you a man of substance, a perfect match for you. Remember that God makes ALL THINGS so beautiful in His time.
January 30th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
This post speaks words of encouragement. I agree that all the qualities that are mentioned need to be upheld in order to have a fair and loving relationship. This is a very lovely post and think everyone should uphold these standards.
December 17th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
I feel that no matter what, we as Christians have to uphold the standard and not let the worldy attitudes and ideas cloud our vision. I’m a divorced mom of a little over 3 yrs. It’s very very hard not to start believing the enemy’s lies that unless I give sex, I won’t get love in return. I’ve been on several dates and I’ve learned that if someone truly wants you, they’ll protect your purity. So far, none of the men I’ve met came to the standard of God’s Word. It’s so hard, but by God’s grace I’m still here encouraged and trust God that he has one of His sons waiting for me, just as I’m waiting for him. I pray for my future spouse, knowing God is faithful. Be encouraged and dont’ let this world decieve you about true love.
October 14th, 2008 at 10:22 am
i am 23 yet still single sometimes i think there is something wrong because no man seems to appease me i think they are wrong for me pls tell me i am doing the right thing.
-Not sure what you mean by appeasing you, surely hope that is not in a intimate sense. If you were only focusing on being appeased sexually that would be lust driven, not love driven. If you are referring to it in a different way, then you are only focusing on yourself, love is not self centered. You can not love without giving.
September 10th, 2008 at 1:25 pm
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August 13th, 2008 at 8:15 pm
I just happen to come across this web site regarding relationships and am so inspird to read all the wonderful information that you have here. I am now a single woman after a 47 year marriage of which I lost my husband in an auto accident. Now being single after so many years the dating is so different and what most men are looking for. It warms my heart to read your articles, as it is how I feel so strongly about for it is all biblical content which is how it should be in all relationships, single or married even how we should treat all relationships with everyone. Thanks for having this inspiring reading.
July 2nd, 2008 at 3:12 pm
I JUST TURNED 58 THIS JUNE,AND HAVE BEEN ALONE FOR 11 +YRS. AND A FEW WEEKS AGO, I MET A MAN WHOM I BELIEVE IS THE LAST LOVE OF MY LIFE. HE THINKS THE SUN RISES AND SETS IN ME, HE HAS BEEN ALONE EVEN LONGER THAN I HAVE, AND LIKE ME WAS REALLY A LITTLE HESITANT, BEING OUT OF THE DATING CIRCLE SO LONG ! WE BOTH FEEL IT WAS THE PRAYERS HE AND I HAD SENT UP THAT BROUGHT US TOGETHER ! HE IS EVERYTHING I’VE WANTED FOR, AND HE SAYS I WAS WORTH ANY WAIT HE’D HAVE HAD TO ENDURE, HE MAKES ME FEEL BEAUTIFUL, WE BOTH FEEL LIKE WE’RE 20 YRS. OLD AGAIN ! BECAUSE WE BOTH ARE CHRISTIANS, WE’VE CHOSEN TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE BEFORE BEGINNING THE PHYSICAL PART OF OUR RELATIONSHIP, WE,KNOW HOW PRECIOUS THIS GIFT IS TO BOTH OF US, AND HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE TO SAY I LOVE YOU AGAIN! BRENDA AND WILL
June 27th, 2008 at 1:32 am
I am already in a relationship with a christian brother. we are planning on getting married soon. meanwhile, from the look of things he is very careful not to sin against God by making sure that we do not have sex before marriage, which i think is the best. my problem is that, a friend told me it is the wrong thing to do because he may be impotent so we need to have sex before marriage.
Re: It sounds like your friends advice lacks any wisdom. It may be that your friend has fallen short of purity, thus their reasoning. Envy will attempt to put doubt in your mind, people who are unable to maintain a level of integrity may try to get others to fail, because they think it will make them feel better about their own misguided actions. If impotency is a real concern of yours, you could always ask your boyfriend to have that checked with a doctor.
June 26th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
This is a refreshing piece for myself… I pledged to myself that I would remain a virgin until I was married, (I’m 27). I’m single and I’ve been dating a guy for about a year and 4 months. When we first met and had our initial talk, I told him where I stood on sex, and he was fine with that, he made no objections otherwise. With him being experienced, I understood that for him to go “cold turkey” would be a challenge, there were times when he couldn’t be around me. But now the fact of the matter is that I haven’t literally seen him since LAST September, and it makes me wonder if the reason I haven’t seen him is because I haven’t put out yet. I don’t think he views sex the way this article does. Granted he works around the clock and is in school, but I truly feel that no matter what you have going on, if you truly want to be with someone, you’ll make the time for them… and he just hasn’t done that. But I believe if sex were a part of the equation, I wouldn’t even be making this post. I just wanted to thank you for showing that there are men out there who do share this view of sex.
Re: The right person will show you with their words and their actions what you mean to them. If you were spending time with someone who was not showing you, by their actions, that they want to be with you, then move forward, what you are missing is missing you……..you just may not have “seen” them yet.
June 18th, 2008 at 3:33 am
is really encouraging I would like to receive teaching on singles and more advice thanks
June 16th, 2008 at 6:58 am
This is really lovely and encouraging.Thumbs up. I would like to recieve further teachings via my email. At the moment am really lonely and all the guys that walk up to me are those i don’t like. I think your advice to the singles is awesome. Singles should learn to wait for their own God-given spouse.